Description
The Anniversary Project
Most people give their finances a real annual review, their car an annual service, their health an annual checkup. An annual marriage check-in almost never happens — not because marriages matter less, but because nobody ever handed couples a format for it.
The Anniversary Project is a guide to an annual marriage check-in, built around one real tool: the Anniversary Audit, five honest dimensions reviewed once a year, on or near your anniversary.
This guide treats an annual marriage check-in as a genuine, recurring practice rather than a one-time exercise. Four chapters cover why the annual review matters, the Audit itself, comparing both partners’ honest accounts of the year, and setting real individual and shared intentions for the year ahead.
What It Helps With:
- A real, repeatable structure for an annual marriage check-in
- The Anniversary Audit — five honest dimensions, rated together every year
- A genuine side-by-side comparison of both partners’ experience of the past year
- A 30-day arc and a preparation checklist to make the ritual actually stick
This guide is for any married couple who wants a real, recurring way to check in deliberately, once a year. Whatever changed this year, showing up for the conversation again is the actual practice — not getting it perfect, just doing it again, honestly, every year.




